I keep seeing variations on this theme everywhere. Live the Life You Love, Love the Life You Live - well you get the idea.
The problem - I can't.
The Life I Love? Would not include dementia and giving up on any hope of a career.
Love What You Do? Well I guess I can be proud of what I do - take care of my husband, advocate for his needs, make sure that he gets everything he needs and deserves. But do I love it? I can think of things I'd love more than being yelled at and taken for granted. Many, many things.
Live the Life you Love - Love the Life You Live - well if you can do that I guess go for it.